So my boyfriend of a year and a half and I broke up Monday night...it was NOT a pretty breakup, to say the least. We just had a lot of problems communicating problems to each other, and I'm not as affectionate as he would like me to be. I also don't always like to hang out with his friends. I have my reasons...anyway, we both didn't want it to end, and we broke down. I've NEVER seen anyone as upset as he was that night. I don't really want to do into details about it, so I won't, but needless to say, it was terrible.

We talked last night, after the dust had cleared a little, and (he) decided that we aren't going to be together for the time being, but I was going to have to prove myself and that I really wanted to be with him; in other words, I need to be more affectionate, and I need to hang out with him and his friends more. After he feels like I'm holding up my end of everything, we're going to be together again. If this wasn't confusing enough, we then ended up having sex.

I feel a lot better today having talked to him. I'm gonna try very hard to save us, and his deal was very generous. However, I'm confused about where we stand. If we're not dating, but spending time together and having sex, then what are we? Is it a good idea? Could someone please try to help me clarify this?

So...I just finished my last final exam today, so now that school's out, maybe I'll have time to actually blog rather than just leave comments. :P